Introducing Dr. Tara’s Newest book
How Do You Like It?
A Guide For Getting What You Want (In Bed)
The Internet’s most popular sex coach answers every TMI question about sex, dating, and relationships in this guide to sexual satisfaction that also features well-researched studies, engaging quizzes, prompts, and more.
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Dubbed the “Internet’s Resident Sexpert” by PaperMagazine and known as the “Queen of Sex” on TikTok, Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn believes every person has the right to an incredible and fulfilling sex life, a message she preaches to her more than 2.3 million followers on social media.
How Do You Like It? introduces new trends, unique exercises, and nontraditional perspectives on sex, dating, and relationships and presents various in-depth methods of communication to use no matter where you are on your journey. Through intrapersonal, interpersonal, and societal lenses, Dr. Tara addresses important questions like: Why do most people have low sexual self-esteem and why don’t we hold ourselves accountable for a mediocre sex life?
With her tongue-in-cheek writing and fun personality, her answers are not only refreshing and unique but also informative and will help those struggling to understand themselves and their partners. This is the comprehensive sex education you never knew you needed. Dr. Tara also reveals novel concepts in the sexual wellness space, from her own Myers-Briggs–inspired “Sexual Profile Quiz” to what’s exciting and trending in sex, porn, relationship types, and much more. So whether you’re in a monogamous, open, or polyamorous relationship or are curious about your sexual profile, Dr. Tara shows us that self-understanding, sexual communication, and erotic solutions will lead to long-term sexual fulfillment.
How Do You Like It? gives readers the permission to uncover their own sexual desires and overcome toxic sex shaming while also equipping them with the tools needed to discover their true sexual identities and lead a fulfilling sex life.
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Praise for How Do You Like It?
"This guide will help you become more sexually empowered and live the life you desire and deserve, because sex is never just about sex—sex is about everything else."
MELANIE ROSE
Host of Netflix’s How to Build a Sex Room
"In How Do You Like It?, sexual communication expert and radically candid sex educator Dr. Tara welcomes us into her world of joyful sexual empowerment with an uncensored, sex-positive guide to take control of the intrapersonal, interpersonal, and cultural factors that shape our sexual lives."
DR. JUSTIN GARCIA
Executive director of the Kinsey Institute and author of The Intimate Animal
"A must-read for anyone looking to shift the way they think about, talk about, and go about sexual pleasure!"
DR. KATE BALESTRIERI
Licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist, and author of What Happened to My Sex Life?
"A bold, compassionate, and insightful guide for anyone curious about their own desires—whether you have not yet discovered what turns you on sexually or you’re ready to see your fantasies rise to the next level. This book offers a safe, judgment-free space to learn, reflect, and grow in sexual awareness. With a refreshing mix of honesty, humor, and expert guidance, it’s a must-read for anyone seeking a more empowered, pleasurable, and authentic sex life."
DR. LORI BROTTO
Professor of obstetrics and gynecology, psychologist, and author of Better Sex Through Mindfulness